Darlene L. Bates, 82, passed away on Tuesday, September 1, 2026, at The Journey Home in Bartlesville, Oklahoma.

 

She was born on December 29, 1943, in Coffeyville, Kansas, to Harland and Maybelle (Sprague) Wright. Darlene grew up and attended school in Coffeyville.

 

On July 6, 1966, she was united in marriage to Harold "Harry" Bates in Miami, Oklahoma. Following their marriage, they made their home in Coffeyville before moving to Connecticut and New Bedford, Massachusetts where their children were born, before returning to Coffeyville where they raised their family. Her husband preceded her in death on September 24, 2024.

 

Darlene's spirit shone brightest when she was surrounded by her family, especially her grandchildren and great-grandchildren. She found immense joy in simple pleasures, like bowling and playing cards, but the highlight of her day was always the precious time spent with her loved ones.

 

Darlene is survived by her daughter, Sherry Koger; her son, Harold "Jay" Bates, Jr.; her brother, Eugene (Linda) Wright; her sisters, Shirley (Jack) Harris; and Patricia (James "Skip") Crittenden; four grandchildren and eleven great-grandchildren.

 

She was preceded in death by her parents, Harland and Maybelle Wright; husband, Harry Bates; son, Stephen Bates; and brother, Linford Wright.

 

Following Darlene's wishes cremation has taken place under the direction of David W. Barnes Funeral Home in Coffeyville.

 

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